Lean In or Lean Out: Women Are Damned Either Way

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A lot of movement has occurred in the last few years to bring greater equality to the workplace for women, but we are still far from an equal environment. Still pressured to not “make waves”, even at events to foster more women in tech, they are encouraged to hold back.

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10 Women You Should Know

Ms. Career Girl

Woolf would be proud of how far women have come, and indeed we have come very far. The following 10 women have made a difference in their careers, communities, and of course in the world as a whole, and we think you should know them. A native of Wausau, Wisconsin, Ms.

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Why men should give women flowers | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

About this blog | About my company, Brazen Careerist | Penelopes guide to starting a blog Why men should give women flowers Posted to: Learn to take advice | Office Politics October 28th, 2009 Del.icio.us Women like receiving flowers. Men know that women in general like flowers, but men also believe that women they know personally do not like flowers. The women they know are the exception to the rule. women? Is this your first time here?

How To Dig Out Of Credit Card Debt

Ms. Career Girl

The post How To Dig Out Of Credit Card Debt appeared first on Ms. Career Girl. Ten years ago I was thousands of dollars in credit card debt and it was getting worse by the month. Spoiler alert: I not only got out from under it, I started building my savings. Here’s how.

5 Twitter Casualties: Use Caution When You Tweet

Resume Bear

The State of Indiana: In February, Jeff Cox, an attorney for the state of Indiana was fired for suggesting via Twitter that police officers should “use live ammunition” to dismantle union protestors in Wisconsin.

The 5 Professional Development Pillars of Real-Life Career Girls

Ms. Career Girl

Each of these women also seemed to have positioned themselves for many more successful tomorrows. The same seems to be true for women not so far along in their career. At home in Wisconsin Ann was worked in publishing and on the industry side of public relations.

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What startup life is really like

Penelope Trunk

So divorce rates are high, especially among women, because they are much less likely to have a spouse who is willing to stay home and keep the family intact. And I became exhausted wondering how women get both. Until I realized, oh, this is why women don’t do startups.).

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Improve goal-setting by understanding how it fails

Penelope Trunk

Like the majority of women, I always have a nagging worry that I’ll end up being a crazy bag lady. I take anti-anxiety drugs. I say that so I can deny that they also function as anti-depressants. Because I think I’m too old to still be depressed from a traumatic childhood.

Friday Five: Health, Being Heard and Negotiating Space, Time and Money

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The article itself isn’t bad — it encourages women not to look to celebrities for fitness role models, since they, unlike most working women, dedicate several hours of each day to fitness and working with a trainer. Welcome back to the Friday Five!

This is me battling impostor syndrome

Penelope Trunk

If there were a neurology lab in rural Wisconsin he’d probably send me there because he has told me numerous times, most recently right after he apologized for pushing me, again, that I am emotionally abusive to him. He tells me he researched women’s shelters in my area.

US Chamber Foundation and Goodwill Partner to Provide Career Services to Veterans and Military Spouses

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We are delighted to partner with the organization in equipping today’s military men and women with the career counseling and resources they need to drive our country forward.” And as a direct result of more than 660 job fairs in all 50 states, Puerto Rico and the District of Columbia, 21,600 men and women have found employment. Goodwill has committed to help 3,000 women veterans over the next two years.

Take more advice. It will help you.

Penelope Trunk

So then I wrote a post titled, “I hate USA Today and I don’t f **g care if you’re sick of me ranting about how women cannot have it all. ” He reminded me that in Wisconsin, you can take your kids to any bar. You know where we saw US women’s soccer win?

The ultimate answer to balancing your work and life

Cube Rules

I didn’t know her very well — I had only visited her 4-5 times over the last five years because of distance, but found her a wonderful women who had led a full and complete life. All because my niece can come to Wisconsin from Texas and Kate and I could see her and her husband.

What I’m reading. Really.

Penelope Trunk

Here’s a link to a Myers-Briggs distribution chart that shows, among other things, why women like Melissa who are INTJs look completely out of step with the rest of the world but always send great links. We don’t have food delivery web sites in rural Wisconsin.

Goodbye, Mom

Cube Rules

From December to April, Kate and I spent most of our non-working time figuring out how to get Mom, a “snow bird” who lives in Wisconsin in the summer and Arizona in the winter, into a facility that could provide her support while still not robbing her of independent living. Kate, my stepson, brother-in-law and I — my immediate family — then headed out on vacation to a house on a lake with no one else except the 40-million mosquitoes that inhabit Wisconsin this year.

HARASSED: Why You Need to Add These Text Exchanges to Whatever Harassment Training You Do.

HR Capitalist

24, Kevin Hadsell, the director of the University of Toledo's men's and women's cross country and women's track program, announced his resignation , a move that was as mysterious as it was abrupt.

How To Handle Molestation: A Real Encounter

Personal Excellence Blog

Do you know that one out of every three women worldwide is physically, sexually or otherwise abused during her lifetime with rates reaching 70 percent in some countries? Have you ever been molested before? I have, and today’s article is about how to handle molestations.

Why your business network isn’t helping you

Cube Rules

Kate and I moved back to Wisconsin relatively recently. I like and respect Bob, and I feel strongly about promoting women in science, so I happily agreed. photo credit: Jason A. Samfield.

Do you overemphasize happiness? | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

And I’ve lived in Wisconsin, where, I’m not kidding about this, almost everyone will tell you they are happy. But you can trust me on this, Wisconsin does not offer a lot of choices and opportunities. Now I’m going to preemptively rip on everyone who thinks they are going to comment here about Wisconsin. Wisconsin does have things that are world-class: Football , beer , cheese , PETA-inflaming bioscience departments. People don’t live in Wisconsin because of that.

Productivity is about finding space | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

Posted by live in wisconsin on April 12, 2010 at 7:04 pm | permalink | Reply Thank you for the pleasant moment. As Nick Englebert said " If a man can't be happy on a little farm in Wisconsin, he doesn't have the makings of happiness in his soul."

The Senior Series: Should Seniors Skip Spring Break this Year?

Ms. Career Girl

Career Girl Marketing to Gen Y Women. I did however skip my senior spring break in order to go to very snowy Wisconsin, and work for my future employer. Home About Archives Write for Us! Blog Directory Contact Subscribe The Senior Series: Should Seniors Skip Spring Break this Year?

“Good Guidance for New Graduates”

Sklover Working Wisdom

The comments below appeared in The New York Times last week while I was in Madison, Wisconsin celebrating my son Sam’s college graduation. . Furthermore, the windfall came at a cost: The lottery winners derived significantly less happiness from everyday activities than did ordinary men and women. . Four Very Wise Thoughts. “It’s It’s hot. Good luck. Good bye.”. Graduation Speech by School Board President. at outdoor graduation on extremely hot day.

How to take intelligent risks | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

" Posted by Annie B on September 29, 2010 at 7:12 pm | permalink | Reply Glue jokes aside, just peel pieces off, leave others, take real creative risks, look at Peter Beard, Karen Blixen (a farm in Africa inspires a farm in Wisconsin?) Is this your first time here?

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Blogs without topics are a waste of time | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

The Other End of the Leash is about animal behavior, but also about farm life in southern wisconsin. Thanks for the great blog – I was inspired to start my blog "on the brink of life and love" and focused on writing for women. Is this your first time here? About this blog | About my company, Brazen Careerist | Penelopes guide to starting a blog Blogs without topics are a waste of time Posted to: Finding a career | How to blog October 6th, 2009 Del.icio.us

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Workplace news you cannot use | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

About this blog | About my company, Brazen Careerist | Penelopes guide to starting a blog Workplace news you cannot use Posted to: How to blog | Productivity | Women January 25th, 2010 Del.icio.us Law firms are making concessions for women. But many firms that have already done this in response to the extreme brain drain in the legal profession due to women leaving law firms because they are so inflexible. Is this your first time here?

Asperger's at work: Why I need a sick day to register my car.

Penelope Trunk

Have I told you that now that I live in Wisconsin I have taken to drinking gas station coffee? I mean, there’s the Wisconsin ID department, and the driver’s license department, and the car registration people, and you can even get a passport photo taken here. It's true … at least for most of the women I know. Yes, all women feel a little 'fat' sometimes. Is this your first time here?

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My miscarriage — on CNN, ABC and AOL | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

About this blog | About my company, Brazen Careerist | Penelopes guide to starting a blog My miscarriage — on CNN, ABC and AOL Posted to: Women October 1st, 2009 Del.icio.us But I'm posting this one, where I talk about trying to get an abortion in Wisconsin and end up with a miscarriage at work instead. But I've been learning a lot about women from the comments about the miscarriage twitter — on my blog and on other sites. Is this your first time here?

When you're feeling lost, don't hide | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

Enjoy the beauty that you have created (decorating) and the natural beauty of a Wisconsin farm. Mary Posted by Mary Budge on August 16, 2010 at 9:42 am | permalink | Reply The book 'Women Food God'… all about being lost, then sitting still and listening, and finding your life.

Asperger's at work: Why I'm difficult in meetings | Penelope.

Penelope Trunk

I wonder what happens in Wisconsin? Is this your first time here? About this blog | About my company, Brazen Careerist | Penelopes guide to starting a blog Asperger's at work: Why I'm difficult in meetings Posted to: Diversity | Knowing yourself October 29th, 2009 Del.icio.us Digg Reddit StumbleUpon Tweet This Facebook Eighty percent of adults with Asperger Syndrome do not have full-time work. This not because they can’t do the work.

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First, be honest about what you want | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

Penelope Posted by Penelope Trunk on November 3, 2009 at 9:52 am | permalink | Reply Wisconsin has tighter non-marital definitions than other States. I believe this is why women are silent about it at work. Posted by Caitlin on November 3, 2009 at 4:08 pm | permalink | Reply When my Wisconsin husband and I were first married we lived on his family's farm. On Wisconsin! Is this your first time here?

This is what it looks like to have a hard time making a change.

Penelope Trunk

I know that sounds crazy, but remember that I live in the middle of Wisconsin. I know that sounds crazy, but remember that I live in the middle of Wisconsin." Maybe if you had more women in your life talking about their sex life in a frank way, you would not find this sort of talk so jarring. The idea that a women who is sexual or otherwise bold is somehow a "Ho" is ridiculous. This post suggests that you haven't converted yet to Wisconsin.

Martin Luther King Day Special: Racism is alive and kicking.

Penelope Trunk

The theme of the evening, in general, was “real men get thrown off bulls and treat women like crap.” Until the women came out. Racist clown as ringleader in a stadium full of people doing a minstrel show in Madison, Wisconsin. Clearly not the young men and women brought up in Wisconsin. Step out of Madison even a little, and Wisconsin is a pretty conservative (i.e., Is this your first time here?

How to get good ideas for startups | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

We just returned from our local county fair (in Wisconsin) where my daughter showed a Hereford steer. But I don't think cattle breeding in Wisconsin is going to make your fortune. Is this your first time here?

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4 Twitter tips no one will give you | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

This is, of course, after I followed every piece of happiness advice out there and moved to one of the places in America that has the highest density of happiness: Rural Wisconsin. Is this your first time here?

Shifting the balance of power. (Mainstream media stinks.

Penelope Trunk

I feel an urgent need to separate a sane online conversation about women at work from an insane media that is doing exactly what destroys women at work: Making it extremely difficult for me to have a manageable schedule for parenting. Refreshingly open gobbed about what many other women are thinking but too frightened to say. Why should women have to hide this stuff in shame? Penelope is helping women with her honesty and openness, not hurting some "brand."

Privacy is the new celebrity | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

Very few women would choose this life without being able to make this life better by supporting the family financially. Just wanted to congratulate you on being named among the top 100 blogs for women by Forbes. Is this your first time here?

How to express your true self at work | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

Women do better at work if they are feminine at work instead of trying to be like the guys. I think more men function in that arena better than women, because more of them played on a team of some sort. " that assumes that who women "really are" is feminine.

How to cope with diversity | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

And do you know what Wisconsin natives ask when I tell them I live on a farm? “Do It’s so common for farmers to burn furniture in their yard that people in Wisconsin know which furniture makes the best fire. I do not feel sad for women who wear the burka or hijab.

Welcome, San Francisco Chronicle Readers | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

on December 7, 2009 at 3:38 pm | permalink | Reply "I feel like if I just stay in Wisconsin, if I just stick out, then somehow … I'll just stop being a maximizer. Posted by prklypr on December 7, 2009 at 5:48 pm | permalink | Reply People in Wisconsin don't pay $300 to get jeans that fit perfectly. I like you, and I like the fact you moved her to Wisconsin. Is this your first time here?

How has Facebook changed the way you vacation?

Corn on the Job

I came home from this trip with Facebook connections in Canada, Mexico, North Carolina, Chicago, Connecticut, Michigan, Indiana, Wisconsin, and South Jersey (which I consider, an extension of Philadelphia). I picked up my other half from the airport recentlyand he had befriended two women that he met in the security line. Corn on the Job Wisdom for Job Seekers Blog About Archives COTJ Blog Roll Corn Heads Contact Subscribe How has Facebook changed the way you vacation?