Lean In or Lean Out: Women Are Damned Either Way

Workology

A lot of movement has occurred in the last few years to bring greater equality to the workplace for women, but we are still far from an equal environment. Still pressured to not “make waves”, even at events to foster more women in tech, they are encouraged to hold back.

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Thanksgiving drama on steroids: Adding a family business to the.

Penelope Trunk

About this blog | About my company, Brazen Careerist | Penelopes guide to starting a blog Thanksgiving drama on steroids: Adding a family business to the mix Posted to: Entrepreneurship | Money | Negotiating November 25th, 2009 Del.icio.us Digg Reddit StumbleUpon Tweet This Facebook I think its safe to say that for the majority of people, Thanksgiving is not about goodness and gratitude, but rather, family drama. There are pieces of the family business I’m dying to tell you about.

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How To Dig Out Of Credit Card Debt

Ms. Career Girl

Is it something priceless like loving your family? The post How To Dig Out Of Credit Card Debt appeared first on Ms. Career Girl. Ten years ago I was thousands of dollars in credit card debt and it was getting worse by the month.

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Why men should give women flowers | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

About this blog | About my company, Brazen Careerist | Penelopes guide to starting a blog Why men should give women flowers Posted to: Learn to take advice | Office Politics October 28th, 2009 Del.icio.us Women like receiving flowers. Men know that women in general like flowers, but men also believe that women they know personally do not like flowers. The women they know are the exception to the rule. women? Is this your first time here?

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Goodbye, Mom

Cube Rules

From December to April, Kate and I spent most of our non-working time figuring out how to get Mom, a “snow bird” who lives in Wisconsin in the summer and Arizona in the winter, into a facility that could provide her support while still not robbing her of independent living. Kate, my stepson, brother-in-law and I — my immediate family — then headed out on vacation to a house on a lake with no one else except the 40-million mosquitoes that inhabit Wisconsin this year.

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The ultimate answer to balancing your work and life

Cube Rules

I didn’t know her very well — I had only visited her 4-5 times over the last five years because of distance, but found her a wonderful women who had led a full and complete life. All because my niece can come to Wisconsin from Texas and Kate and I could see her and her husband.

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Are you and your co-workers 'Perfect Strangers'?

Corn on the Job

by Rich DeMatteo on January 12, 2010 Larry Appleton had just moved to Chicago for a more private life, away from his large family in Wisconsin. Coexisting with your co-workers Who do you spend more time with, your family or your co-workers?

The 5 Professional Development Pillars of Real-Life Career Girls

Ms. Career Girl

Each of these women also seemed to have positioned themselves for many more successful tomorrows. Reflecting on how her military services impacted her academic aspirations Ann says, “Your first priority coming back [from deployment] is family – to get your family reunified.

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Improve goal-setting by understanding how it fails

Penelope Trunk

Like the majority of women, I always have a nagging worry that I’ll end up being a crazy bag lady. I have to stop thinking that being in a family is about meeting a goal and then meeting another. So now I write notes to myself to remember to fill my family with joy.

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3 Rules high achievers never break

Penelope Trunk

Partly because it was 50 degrees in Wisconsin this spring, and partly because my bulbs probably have some sort of photosynthesis version of schizophrenia since I planted fall bulbs during a blizzard in Janurary. My family is too normal for reality TV. (I’m

2013 110

Five steps to make a breakdown just a little breakdown

Penelope Trunk

And here’s another fear I have: Fear of competing with middle-aged men who abandon their family and marry someone younger. He said, “I found your site by typing into Google women near Darlington Wisconsin who want to have sex.”

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The Senior Series: Should Seniors Skip Spring Break this Year?

Ms. Career Girl

Career Girl Marketing to Gen Y Women. I did however skip my senior spring break in order to go to very snowy Wisconsin, and work for my future employer. I always came home to family. Next post: One Family’s Recipe for Happiness Connect with Ms.

2010 161

“Good Guidance for New Graduates”

Sklover Working Wisdom

The comments below appeared in The New York Times last week while I was in Madison, Wisconsin celebrating my son Sam’s college graduation. . Furthermore, the windfall came at a cost: The lottery winners derived significantly less happiness from everyday activities than did ordinary men and women. . And always do what you can to achieve for yourself, your family, and your career. Four Very Wise Thoughts. “It’s It’s hot. Good luck. Good bye.”.

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What startup life is really like

Penelope Trunk

So divorce rates are high, especially among women, because they are much less likely to have a spouse who is willing to stay home and keep the family intact. And I became exhausted wondering how women get both. Until I realized, oh, this is why women don’t do startups.).

2011 107

Take more advice. It will help you.

Penelope Trunk

So then I wrote a post titled, “I hate USA Today and I don’t f **g care if you’re sick of me ranting about how women cannot have it all. ” He reminded me that in Wisconsin, you can take your kids to any bar. You know where we saw US women’s soccer win?

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What I’m reading. Really.

Penelope Trunk

I read Us Magazine for reports on the Royal Family because those of us in the know understand that Will and Kate’s baby means more than mere tabloid fodder. We don’t have food delivery web sites in rural Wisconsin. Will Penelope’s family starve?

2013 91

Turning point | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

Your wedding looks great and it sounds like your family will be really happy on the farm. This is the first time (that I've seen) where you've put up a picture of your family. Posted by Ana on April 20, 2010 at 8:40 am | permalink | Reply Your whole family looks so happy.

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How to do damage control | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

They rely on their families and their gun collection. “Do And if you want a complete transcript of daily life in Darlington, Wisconsin, get your own blog. Well, it’s not technically illegal to drive without a license in Wisconsin. Is this your first time here?

2010 92

This is what it looks like to have a hard time making a change.

Penelope Trunk

I know that sounds crazy, but remember that I live in the middle of Wisconsin. I know that sounds crazy, but remember that I live in the middle of Wisconsin." Maybe if you had more women in your life talking about their sex life in a frank way, you would not find this sort of talk so jarring. The idea that a women who is sexual or otherwise bold is somehow a "Ho" is ridiculous. This post suggests that you haven't converted yet to Wisconsin.

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How to be lost with panache | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

I have been reading a lot about how it’s hard to identify women with Asperger’s syndrome because they are so much better than men at mimicking social norms. I was young, and there were very few high-profile women in business. Is this your first time here?

2010 94

How to cope with diversity | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

And do you know what Wisconsin natives ask when I tell them I live on a farm? “Do It’s so common for farmers to burn furniture in their yard that people in Wisconsin know which furniture makes the best fire. I do not feel sad for women who wear the burka or hijab.

2010 86

Check-up for self-delusion | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

About this blog | About my company, Brazen Careerist | Penelopes guide to starting a blog Check-up for self-delusion Posted to: Diversity | Self-management | Women February 7th, 2010 Del.icio.us What about all the people who make the Superbowl a family TV event? More about the world of delusion: Time magazine reports that 78% women feel that media does not accurately represent women with kids. Probably the most accurate representation of women is in the blogosphere.

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Privacy is the new celebrity | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

Royal family member Peter Phillips , on the other hand, is eleventh from the throne and almost a commoner. Very few women would choose this life without being able to make this life better by supporting the family financially. Is this your first time here?

2010 87

When you're feeling lost, don't hide | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

Perspective: In a small town everyone is identified by their last name and what their family is known for. You are giving some of your best energy to your newly configured family. There can be no strict lines of demarcation between career and family–they have to blend together.

2010 91

What are we working for, really? | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

For example, if your great-great-grandfather homesteaded land and consequently you inherited 2000 acres and you mortgage it to support your family, is the farm supporting you? The cats with the red ribbons on their necks were the ones the family wanted to keep.

2010 96

Shifting the balance of power. (Mainstream media stinks.

Penelope Trunk

More than feeling compelled to justify myself to your audience, I feel compelled to protect my schedule and my family from your intrusive calls and seemingly random deadlines. I feel an urgent need to separate a sane online conversation about women at work from an insane media that is doing exactly what destroys women at work: Making it extremely difficult for me to have a manageable schedule for parenting. Why should women have to hide this stuff in shame?

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First, be honest about what you want | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

This was competing with my second favorite happy memory of finally getting a family friend's dog to settle and calm down at his first big party when he was terrified of everyone around (he had been likely abused before our friends took him in). It makes sense then that what makes me happiest now are my hours with the local shelter–working with the dogs there so they learn skills and confidence and get adopted into great families. On Wisconsin!

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Lesson from LeBron James: How to decide when to relocate.

Penelope Trunk

It's friends and family vs. opportunity. Happiness comes from close relationships with family and friends. That explains a lot of the relocating away from families in small towns. He will have plenty of things to distract him from his game and away from his family.

2010 105

How has Facebook changed the way you vacation?

Corn on the Job

Us kids convinced our families to go on excursions like climbing Dunn’s River Falls (if you don’t know what it is, definitely check it out). I came home from this trip with Facebook connections in Canada, Mexico, North Carolina, Chicago, Connecticut, Michigan, Indiana, Wisconsin, and South Jersey (which I consider, an extension of Philadelphia). I picked up my other half from the airport recentlyand he had befriended two women that he met in the security line.

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Befriend the intern to fire up your career | Penelope Trunk's.

Penelope Trunk

At this point, I have written enough about oral sex and family atrocities that you will not be shocked to hear that my first book is really a memoir that my publisher – out of the University of Colorado — decided was too disturbing to be sold as a memoir, so it was published as a novel.

2010 93

How to get good ideas for startups | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

We just returned from our local county fair (in Wisconsin) where my daughter showed a Hereford steer. farming is in my family's near future and this is the stuff I think about, now. But I don't think cattle breeding in Wisconsin is going to make your fortune.

2010 97

Productivity is about finding space | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

Posted by live in wisconsin on April 12, 2010 at 7:04 pm | permalink | Reply Thank you for the pleasant moment. As Nick Englebert said " If a man can't be happy on a little farm in Wisconsin, he doesn't have the makings of happiness in his soul."

2010 88

Announcing another live video chat and something else. | Penelope.

Penelope Trunk

I would tell you how small, but I am not allowed to write details about the farmer's family. In Wisconsin, there's no common law marriage. So we are exchanging rings in Wisconsin and having dinner in Iowa. Best wishes to your family!!

2010 78

How to take intelligent risks | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

I liked making copies of family photos and gluing them to the wall. Is this your first time here?

2010 109

4 Twitter tips no one will give you | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

This is, of course, after I followed every piece of happiness advice out there and moved to one of the places in America that has the highest density of happiness: Rural Wisconsin. My husband and I are expatriates that left my country, family and friends to move to the U.S.

2010 91

5 Ways to make telecommuting better | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

And he approves of your family, too! Jack Posted by Jack Tate on March 2, 2010 at 8:41 pm | permalink | Reply P, as someone who has worked from home for years, my biggest tip to you is this: don't tell friends and family that you are doing it, get caller ID, get a second phone line just for work, and put your desk somewhere so someone at the front door can't see you working. For women, maybe, pack a purse and keep it next to you. Is this your first time here?

2010 65

You can be happier by reading this post | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

I have never been surrounded by happy people until I lived in Wisconsin. Wisconsin does quite well :) I am at a crossroads, maybe. If you ask a bunch of people in Wisconsin if they're happy, they'll just say yes. The rate of premature births among african american women is higher than for whites regardless of socio- economic status, whereas in Africa the rate of premature births is much lower – essentially the same as for white woman in the US.

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Time management is not about tasks | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

I would fly to Wisconsin just to hang out with you. My relationships are with my son, my friends and my extended family. They forget about their friends, their families, and their relationships that help support them. Is this your first time here?

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How to put blog comments to good use | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

I read the comments from farm families and gave them extra weight. There were lots of people who told me that the family was insane and that the guy should always choose me before the farm but I decided that if you want to live on a farm, you have to live by those values, so I should go with what the farm family comments told me. I knew a family growing up who had a family farm. I do know Wisconsin farmer's though. His family is not your family.

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Announcing: Brazen Careerist Top 50 Places to Work | Penelope.

Penelope Trunk

In our Top 50 list we judge by how close a company gets to hiring 50% women. This is not scientifically proven, but it is true that while all demographics complain about inflexible hours, women will leave the company over it. Assuming that men and women in the STEM field are equivalently good this means that STEM companies will end up hiring significantly more men than women (since STEM is still largely dominated by men). There are 16 employees: 8 men, 8 women.

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How to bounce back | Penelope Trunk's Brazen Careerist

Penelope Trunk

I tried reading but I realized that the book I’m reading, In Other Rooms, Other Wonders , is not actually about Pakistan, but about how men choose land over women over and over again. And what’s best for us is to continue our fun family life in our house. I understand it is hard to go against your family. If men choose their land over the women they love, then women choose their children over the men they love. Is this your first time here?

2009 61

Blogs without topics are a waste of time | Penelope Trunk's Brazen.

Penelope Trunk

The Other End of the Leash is about animal behavior, but also about farm life in southern wisconsin. Asperger and career and what to wear have a common theme – but so many of these Blogger Hero types mix and match work stuff, Pro Whatever Application Usage Hints, something else, something other else, and their family or kid stuff. Thanks for the great blog – I was inspired to start my blog "on the brink of life and love" and focused on writing for women.

2009 68

Asperger's at work: Why I need a sick day to register my car.

Penelope Trunk

Have I told you that now that I live in Wisconsin I have taken to drinking gas station coffee? I mean, there’s the Wisconsin ID department, and the driver’s license department, and the car registration people, and you can even get a passport photo taken here. It's true … at least for most of the women I know. Yes, all women feel a little 'fat' sometimes. Is this your first time here?

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